10.13.2009

she has promise

Monday was a holiday for us (thank you, Columbus), so with first grade looming in the near future & no school yet selected, we decided to attempt to visit a few recommended private schools.  La Scuola Elementare.  A few weeks ago Maddy returned home from preschool telling me that her teachers talk a lot about elementare now.  She wasn't quite certain what that meant, exactly, but she knew it to be something important.



In two of the schools, we did not make it past the secretary.  Honestly, I expected as much.  I'm told that it's important to visit & show interest, nonetheless.   We had conversations with nuns, learned that one school has swimming as part of the school day, saw some little faces of color inside one of the schools,  didn't hear any screaming teachers in any of the three, and received the news we expected from each -- they have many requests for spots & are just starting to sort it out.   The kids who attend their perspective preschools have first dibs, of course.  Of course.  We gave each our name & number but not before dropping the important connections (not so sure how important they are to the schools);  I ended with a hopeful, optimistic feeling.  This hope is just a feeling, a feeling I didn't have before today's visits.



HOWEVER . . . last week we received a message from the reading teacher that Maddy is behind the curve on the reading front.  She insisted that we work more at home.   I suppose she was able to tell that we snuffed it off this summer in favor of more interesting pursuits, like swimming.  So each night we do a bit of decoding, which is really easy in Italian because the sounds don't change, don't really blend, don't have long and short sounds or soft and hard sounds, or at least not nearly to the extent as they do in English.     I think that she is doing quite well, for five. She knows all letter sounds and the common consonant / vowel combos, like: Ma, Mi, Me, Mu, Mo.  She can generally decode 2 syllable words.    Hopefully the reading teacher will think the same in the near future.  This year she visits Maddy's class twice a week for 2 hours each time.  Whew.  Rigor.


And, on a more positive note, today we received an invitation for Maddy to consider joining a Vicenza swim club.  She attends a pool once a week with her little preschool group, and according to her, they just play in the water.  The instructors at the pool are so very impressed with her improvement over the summer that they've extended an invitation to her to join the beginning class of their swim club whose purpose is to discover whether the child may excel in any element of swimming, from the traditional to nuoto sincronizzato, which I can only guess is synchronized swimming.   Perhaps all the time in the pool was not in vain.  She has promise, they think.  I laugh.  It's twice a week, for an hour each time.  I laugh more.  It's only 500 Euro and includes a t-shirt and swim cap. By now I am ROFL. . .rolling on the floor laughing.  I'll call for additional information despite the laughing fits. 


Gioca Danza, where we've reconnected with an old friend (who is likewise searching for the perfect school for her five-year-old), is a big hit with her, and I'm not so sure she's willing to ditch it for more time at the pool.  As expected, there was no big mirrored window looking into the studio, but rather a shut door with a note that it should not be opened during a lesson.  As expected, another mother opened the door, anyhow.  After the first lesson Maddy did comment that the kids didn't listen to the teacher; it concerned her.    I doubt that it will change much . . . the little girls listening, that is. Like Maddy says, "It's Gioca and Danza Mamma, not dance school, just dance and play." I'm happy with that, no need for rigor here.

If you've actually read through all of the above, I love you. Here's a photo from Sunday, just for smiles:



As cooler days approach, we spend more time indoors engaged in art & baking.
She & I did both together this weekend.

7 comments:

Unknown said...

So much going on! So many exciting things to come. I can only imagine how difficult it must be choosing a school, but sounds like you have options.

Francesca said...

Because I read through all of it, and you love me, I'm going to tell you my opinion: "ogni cosa a suo tempo"! Teach her to read ONLY if she shows an interest, otherwise, just read to her. Reading at age 5 will not make her a happier or more clever woman one day, whereas playing, finger painting, listening to wonderful stories, books and music etc will make her a happy and curious 5 year old (and she may well be a happy and reading 5 year old - you only can judge). Personally, I've grown to be quite contrary to the whole early learning concept. Learning at preschool age has to come through play. It's probably a very bad idea to start on this with a mother AND a teacher, but ... still love me:)?
Hope you find the right school (did you try a scuola Steineriana, if you like their pedagogic approach?)

jane said...

really? only 500 euros? is the matriculation included? (they always add an outrageous amount for the matriculation here- and i´m always like to matriculate what exactly?...) good luck with the schools. try not to lose too much sleep. i´m sure it will all work out! p.s. i was wondering if you would mind hosting cv for a while. i´m going to be away. oh and i love you too.

Karen said...

Awww, thanks Dana, I love you too. Of all the things you mentioned, the art and baking with mom sound like the most fun to me. How old was Maddie when you started baking with her?

Dana said...

Francesca -- I agree with you about 99%. It's just that for us it's complicated. I have managed to virtually ignore the reading teacher for 2 years with nods & smiles & thank yous and even decided to forgo the summer assignments. A report that Maddy is behind the six others is not good for the little girl who is already struggling with l'autostima. I know that the reading will come when she is ready. I'm just not ready to attempt to convince the great Ermenia, reading expert extraordinaire, of the same. So... I compromise and have begun with decoding five or six words like "mano" each evening, followed by the usual stories in English. She seems to be okay with it; I know the danger of making it a chore.

Jane -- Umm... I think it's included in the fee. I have no idea. I doubt that we will follow through. She's little. We'll see. Me? Host Corner View email me: danalynkeller@gmail.com

KC -- I can't remember when, but it was pretty early on. By 3 she decorated her birthday cupcakes. Ironically, my husband is the primary cook in our house, but they rarely spend time in the kitchen together. He doesn't have the patience yet. She does a great job -- can crack eggs like a pro & can do basic measuring. She's proud to distribute her work to friends. Today she brought a cupcake to her teacher. It's a stress release for us both.

Whew... thanks ladies.
Dana

Anonymous said...

Seems like you have a lot going on but also like you have it under control. Thanks for sharing. Your stories make me smile.

Leslie

South of Rome said...

I so feel your pain on the school front. Our guy will go off to Kindergarten next year too. We *think* we have a school... This year was a total bust as we arrived in DC too late. I'm so not paying 20k plus for private either! Esp not for pre-K!! So he's home with me. He's been in the Italian system for 2 years so I'm hoping he has that going for him (socialization, etc). I agree with Francesca, play is soooo important, but a little guided play is probably best. I'm actually kind of enjoying homeschooling but I'm happy next year he'll be going to 'real' school ;)