11.26.2008

4 Years Ago

Date: 11/26/2004 @ 4:47 pm
Big Red Chair in Vicenza


Me: Maddy, would you please stop growing up? You are breaking my heart each day. I want my Baby Girl.
Maddy: Momma. I have to grow. My legs, my fingers, my head. It's just all growing, Momma.
She then looks down at her stomach and says -- Grow tummy, grow!
Me: Monella! (loose translation -- brat, but in a sweet way) When you grow up you can no longer live with Momma and Daddy.

That's when she lost it.
Tears, screams, wailing on the floor. . .
"No, no, no!"

{Think she has some separation issues?}

We reassured her (with big white lies) and told her that she could indeed
live
with us
forever
and ever.
A stellar senior student recently
told me that her mom offered to go to college with her.
"We could get an apartment together," she offered.
Natalie politely declined her mom's offer.

I so completely understand that mom.
Fully.
This Baby Girl gift is my most precious reason for thanks.

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